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Separating From Your Spouse

 

After making the decision to terminate your marriage, there are some sensible steps and safe guards that you can take to make the process smoother as well as to protect yourself and your assets.  Here are some suggestions to help you proceed.

 

·         Complete a free case review or call 1-800-550-8047 to speak with a divorce attorney in your area.

 

·         Copy important paperwork such as: pre-marital agreements, financial statements, pay-stubs, business records, deeds, mortgages, investment records, debt information, tax returns, employee benefit information, etc.  It is suggested that you keep this packet of information in a safe place.

 

·         Inventory items of value.  Take pictures or video tape these items.

 

·         Look into health insurance issues.  If you do not carry insurance with your employee, find out if you can maintain it through your spouse’s employer.

 

·         Establish accounts into your name: checking account, credit card, utilities, etc. 

 

·         Cancel joint credit cards and accounts.

 

·         Keep track of information: history of marital problems, phone calls, meetings and financial transactions related to the divorce.

 

·         Establish a network of support.  Often times you and your spouse will share friends, which may make things awkward.

 

·         Be informed.  The more you know about divorce, custody, support, etc., the better you will be.

 

·         Re-evaluate your own budget and finances.  As you begin life as a single individual or single parent, you may have new mortgages or rent payment to make, children to support, car and insurance payments and the list goes on.  Though you may eventually receive some money for child support or maintenance support, you need to face the facts that you are now solely responsible for your bills, debts and livelihood.

 

·         Manage your emotions.  Consult with a counselor, therapist or other support person as needed for support.

 

 

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The Divorce Process Topics: (click on each for description)

 

Choosing Your Lawyer

Consulting with a Lawyer

Attorney's Expectations from their Clients

The Role of Your Lawyer

Communicating with Your Spouse

Grieving Process of Divorce

Helping Your Children Cope with Divorce

Divorce Statistics

The Price of Divorce

Common Mistakes During Divorce and Separation

 

 

 

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